Don't ever let anyone tell you that you are worthy of rape and abuse. Especially when they had an 11-13 year old using her body to get money from men. One thing my mother taught me is that you can't save the world and give speeches to empower woman for $$ while your 17-19 year olds are home trying to figure out how to pay rent. This year I intend to break a twisted cycle of generations of mothers who allow someone who sexually abuse their own child. Rape/molestation of any kind is not okay. If I adopted children, they would never have to overcome what I have as a child and as an adult. Their kids as my adopted grand children would never look at me the way I look at my grandmother now. She makes jokes around me about her old female friend saying that she wants to be raped before she dies.
